哪些类型的孩子易染上网瘾?
人际关系不好的孩子他们希望上网逃避现实。许多学生虽然成绩不错,可是性格内向、猜忌心强,而且小心眼,碰到问题时没能得到及时解决就沉迷于网络,学习和生活受到严重影响。合肥心理咨询中心的专家分析后认为,有5类孩子最易染上“网瘾”。
易染上网瘾孩子的类型1:学习失败的孩子由于家长、老师对孩子的期望过于单一,学习成绩的好坏成为孩子成就感的惟一来源,此时,一旦学习失败,孩子们会产生很强的挫败感。但是在网上,他们很容易体验成功:闯过任何一关,都可以得到“回报”,这种成就感是他们在现实生活中很难体验到的。
Easily infected with Internet addiction type 1: children learning failure due to parents, teachers expect of children is too single, the stand or fall of learning become the only source of children a sense of achievement, at this time, once the learning failure, the children will produce strong frustration.But on the Internet, they are easy to experience success, through any one pass, can be "return", this achievement is that they are difficult to experience the real life.
易染上网瘾孩子的类型2:学习特别好的学生不少本来学习好的学生在升入更好的学校后,无法再保持原有的名次和位置,这时,他们对“努力学习”的目的产生了怀疑。按照老师和父母的逻辑,学习是为了“上大学—————找到好工作—————挣钱”,当他们失去了为“名次”、“位置”等学习的内在动力后,无法认同老师和父母的逻辑,因为,即使不用学习也可以从父母那里得到钱。于是,一些人开始迷恋网络。其实,造成这些孩子依赖网络的根本原因是没有形成正确的学习观。
Easily infected with Internet addiction type 2: a lot of very good students who study good students who study in to a better school, unable to keep the original rank and position, at this time, they doubt the purpose of "study hard".Learning, according to the logic of the teachers and parents, is to "go to college -- --, find a good job -- --, make money", when they lost to "place" and "location", the inner motive power of learning, can't agree with the logic of teachers and parents, because, even without having to learn can get money from their parents.So, some people are infatuated with network.In fact, the root cause of these children rely on network is not form a correct view of learning.
易染上网瘾孩子的类型3:人际关系不好的孩子他们希望上网逃避现实。许多学生虽然成绩不错,可是性格内向、猜忌心强,而且小心眼,碰到问题时没能得到及时解决就沉迷于网络,学习和生活受到严重影响。
Easily infected with Internet addiction type 3: interpersonal relationship is bad children they want to escape from reality.Though many students are good, but introverted, suspicion heart is strong, and narrow-minded, encounter problems didn't get timely solve is addicted to the Internet, severely affected study and life.
易染上网瘾孩子的类型4:家庭关系不和谐的孩子随着离婚率、犯罪率升高等社会问题的增多,社会上的“问题家庭”也在增多,这些孩子通常在家里得不到温暖。但是在网络上,他们提出的任何一点儿小小的请求都会得到不少人的帮助。现实生活和虚拟社会在人文关怀方面的反差,很容易让“问题家庭”的孩子“躲”进网络。
Easily infected with Internet addiction type 4: family relationship not harmonious children along with the increase in divorce rates, rising crime rates and other social problems, "family" also on the rise in the society, these children are usually at home to get warm.But on the Internet, they put forward any small request will get a lot of people to help.In real life and virtual society humanities concern in contrast, it is easy to "problem child" hide "the family" into the network.
易染上网瘾孩子的类型5:自制力弱的孩子不少上网成瘾者都有这个问题,他自己也知道这样不好,也不想这样下去,但是一接触电脑就情不自禁。这是典型的自我控制力不强。生活中要面对很多选择,选择什么是对,什么是错,选择什么该做,什么不该做。如果将人生的元素尽量简单化,那么人生最重要的事情就是选择,选择的正确率越高,成功率也越大。
Easily infected with Internet addiction type 5: many Internet addicts self-control weaker children have this problem, he can know it is not good, also don't want to be so, but a contact computer couldn't help.This is typical of self-control is not strong.Life will face many choices, the choice of what is right and what is wrong, choose what to do, what not to do.If the life of the element as far as possible simple, so the most important thing in life is to choose, choose the higher accuracy, the success rate.Easily infected with Internet addiction type 5: many Internet addicts self-control weaker children have this problem, he can know it is not good, also don't want to be so, but a contact computer couldn't help.This is typical of self-control is not strong.Life will face many choices, the choice of what is right and what is wrong, choose what to do, what not to do.If the life of the element as far as possible simple, so the most important thing in life is to choose, choose the higher accuracy, the success rate.